Share your time, your experience, your life.
You don’t need to be a professional carer to make a difference — just someone with kindness, patience, and a bit of space in your life to support others.
As a Shared Lives carer, you might:
- Welcome someone into your home for a short break or a longer stay
- Support them during the day with activities, appointments, or companionship
- Offer respite to another family or carer who needs time to rest
- Help someone in your community stay independent and connected
Carers come from all walks of life — teachers, tradespeople, parents, retirees, and professionals. What they share is the desire to help others live fuller, more confident lives.
What you’ll gain:
- Purpose and Fulfilment
- Flexible, rewarding work that fits your lifestyle
- Regular income (£290–£650 a week, depending on support)
- Tax relief and paid respite breaks
- Free training and ongoing support
- Deep personal fulfilment and lifelong friendship
How to become a carer
The journey to becoming a Shared Lives carer is personal, supported, and empowering.
You’ll be guided by your local Shared Lives team from your first enquiry through to your first match — whether you’d like to offer day support, short breaks, or longer stays.
Making a difference — and earning a fair income.
Shared Lives carers are self-employed professionals, recognised and supported across the UK for the vital role they play. The income you receive depends on the type of support you provide and the needs of the person you support.
Most carers earn between £290 and £650 per week, per person supported, whether through long-term arrangements, regular short breaks, or flexible day support.
You’ll also benefit from generous Qualifying Care Relief, a special form of tax relief available to Shared Lives carers. This means that, in most cases, your income from caring will be largely — or completely — tax-free.
What this means in practice:
- You can support up to three people at once (two in Scotland), depending on your home and capacity.
- Your weekly payment covers both your care and support role and a contribution to household costs.
- You’ll receive paid respite breaks, so you can rest and recharge.
- Your local Shared Lives team will ensure you’re not out of pocket and that your payments reflect the level of care you provide.
Example
A Shared Lives carer supporting one adult full-time could receive around £450 per week, rising to £550 or more depending on individual needs.
Short-break or day-support carers are paid on a daily or hourly basis, with rates agreed in advance by the local team.
You’ll also receive:
- Free DBS checks
- Full training and ongoing professional development
- 24/7 support from your local scheme
- Membership of Shared Lives Plus, with access to national guidance, community networks, and wellbeing discounts
Becoming a Shared Lives carer isn’t just about income — it’s about independence and flexibility.
You choose the type of support you offer, the hours you give, and the lifestyle that works for you.
Annette, Shared Lives carer, BoltonIt’s the most rewarding work I’ve ever done — and it fits around my life. I get to help others while working from home and being part of something bigger
People from all walks of life can become Shared Lives carers.
There’s no single type of person who makes a great Shared Lives carer — what matters most is your values.
If you’re kind, patient, and open to supporting someone to live more confidently, you already have the foundations of what it takes.
You can apply if you:
- Are over 18 and live permanently in the UK
- Have the right to work and register as self-employed (we’ll guide you through it)
- Have time and space in your life to support someone — whether that’s a few hours a week, short breaks, or longer stays
- Have a spare room (for overnight or longer placements)
- Are happy to complete an enhanced DBS check and participate in a friendly, structured assessment process
You don’t need professional experience or formal qualifications — we’ll provide all the training, checks, and support you need.
Your local Shared Lives team will guide you through each stage of becoming an approved carer, including:
- Understanding the approval process and what to expect
- Registering as self-employed with HMRC (a simple online step)
- Explaining Qualifying Care Relief, so you know exactly how your income and tax work
- Matching you with the right people and setting up your first support arrangement
Every Shared Lives carer brings something unique — from life experience to hobbies, from calm patience to creativity.
We welcome carers of all backgrounds, ages, and lifestyles because Shared Lives is about people — and every kind of person can help someone else belong.
Tariq, Shared Lives carer, OldhamI never thought I could do this until I tried. It’s not about qualifications — it’s about connection.
Carers receive comprehensive, free training in:
- Safeguarding and First Aid
- Medication and Food Safety
- Supporting independence and wellbeing
- Communication, inclusion, and resilience
We also offer optional courses, peer groups, and celebration events to recognise your achievements.
Do I need experience?
No — we’ll provide all the training and mentoring you need.
Can I work as well as be a carer?
Yes. Many carers provide flexible day support alongside other work.
What if I have pets?
That’s usually fine — many people supported by Shared Lives love animals.
How long does it take to become a carer?
Usually four to six months, depending on checks and training.
What if I only have limited time?
You can start by offering day support or short breaks. Every bit of time you give can make a difference.
Will it affect my benefits or mortgage?
Your local team can advise — we’ll help you understand what applies to you.
Support for carers
Because those who give support deserve it too.
Being a Shared Lives carer is a big responsibility, but you’re never on your own. Every carer is backed by a dedicated local team, offering expert guidance, training, and emotional support.
We offer:
- A named coordinator for regular check-ins and advice
- 24/7 emergency support line
- Free DBS checks and mandatory training
- Ongoing learning opportunities and refreshers
- Four weeks of paid respite each year
- Peer networks and carer meet-ups
- Access to Shared Lives Plus resources and discounts